1 John 4:8
Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love.
and
1 Corinthians 13:4-7
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
I have been thinking a lot on love lately. There seems to be such confusion on what love is. Love is complex. We are complex and our God is complex. On the surface love seems easy. I mean it is love, we all love someone. So if we all do it, it must be easy. Right? I have also wondered why is love so important to God. I mean other than the fact that he is love.
Matthew 22:34-40
The Greatest Commandment
Hearing that Jesus had silenced the Sadducees, the Pharisees got together. One of them, an expert in the law, tested him with this question: “Teacher, which is the greatest commandment in the Law?”
Jesus replied: “‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.’This is the first and greatest commandment. 39 And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’All the Law and the Prophets hang on these two commandments.”
The greatest commandment is to love God. The close second was to love your neighbor. I am pretty sure that neighbor isn’t just meaning the people who live next door. So why is it that Christianity has become synonymous with judgmental people. Especially when the Bible says:
Matthew 7:1-2
“Do not judge, or you too will be judged. For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.
Here is why I think it is so important to start at a point of love. Loving lets you look past peoples flaws. Just like I can forgive my two year old her bossy ways. Or how I could stay up all night rocking a crying baby. Love is the reason, I can look past Dan’s short givings. It is why I can forgive my 11 year old her poor attitude during this time of puberty. If you start from a point of love, you can overcome so many things. Love leads to patience and kindness and lets you forget who is winning. The reason why love doesn’t keep score is because if you are keeping score you are losing in love.
Love doesn’t mean never feeling frustrated, it means you work past the frustration. Love doesn’t mean that you don’t speak the truth but you do it in a way that isn’t nasty and mean. Love means you look past the sin and let God do the work. Love doesn’t mean you don’t point people to the way but you don’t force the way on them. God wants the heart of his followers. So as Christians maybe we should stop Bible thumping and bullying people into believing. Maybe it is time that we let people see the God that forgave us our greatest sins. You know the one who loves you. The one who never leaves you alone. The one who gives you strength. That awesome God who does all that for you can certainly do it for them.